Tuesday, January 25, 2011
slow day
I hate slow days at work.
(I just heard the rest of America say "Pffffft! I wish I had some slow days at work!")
It seems like a dumb thing to complain about - after all, I'm still getting paid. That's right; I'm getting paid to answer the phone on the off-chance it should ring, design myself some business cards, and write inane blog posts. Here's the catch: I have to look busy.
I mean, really. All I want to do is take a nap, but when you work in a little glass box, people notice if you're not awake and in an upright position. People also notice if you work on your braided rug - personally, I think crafting is a far more profitable use of my time than goofing off on the computer, but then people would walk by and think "what am I paying HER for?"
Man, am I in a whiny mood today. Must fix.
TEN GOOD THINGS ABOUT TODAY
1. I remembered to pack my lunch.
2. I have a Hello Kitty lunchbox.
3. I designed some distinctly attractive business cards.
4. I might get to stay up late - work will open late tomorrow if it snows.
5. I get to go to the gym after work.
6. I have an amazing fiancé.
7. Jordie Bee taught me how to type an accent over the E in fiancé.
8. Work is almost over.
9. Daddy gave me a bunch of quarters.
10. I have pretty shoes.
(I just heard the rest of America say "Pffffft! I wish I had some slow days at work!")
It seems like a dumb thing to complain about - after all, I'm still getting paid. That's right; I'm getting paid to answer the phone on the off-chance it should ring, design myself some business cards, and write inane blog posts. Here's the catch: I have to look busy.
I mean, really. All I want to do is take a nap, but when you work in a little glass box, people notice if you're not awake and in an upright position. People also notice if you work on your braided rug - personally, I think crafting is a far more profitable use of my time than goofing off on the computer, but then people would walk by and think "what am I paying HER for?"
Man, am I in a whiny mood today. Must fix.
TEN GOOD THINGS ABOUT TODAY
1. I remembered to pack my lunch.
2. I have a Hello Kitty lunchbox.
3. I designed some distinctly attractive business cards.
4. I might get to stay up late - work will open late tomorrow if it snows.
5. I get to go to the gym after work.
6. I have an amazing fiancé.
7. Jordie Bee taught me how to type an accent over the E in fiancé.
8. Work is almost over.
9. Daddy gave me a bunch of quarters.
10. I have pretty shoes.
peace, love, and... wait a minute.
After having been together almost a year, you'd think that Mike and I would have had a few fights by now. Or, if not fights, at least some arguments here and there. That's normal, right? But we haven't. We've had a few very calm disagreements, and we've been upset with one another, and one of us is prone to occasional hysteria (*cough*it'sme*cough*), but we have yet to fight. We haven't even raised our voices.
Which is great. I get really upset when people are angry with me, and loud voices hurt my feelings.
... no, it's great. Seriously.
It just makes me a little paranoid, like when the token blonde in a horror movie has a narrow escape - you know she's going to die an awful death eventually, and now you have to WAIT for it and it's all creepy.
Bad analogy. I'll try to explain myself a little more clearly.
I think what I'm trying to say is that it worries me a little bit that we haven't fought, because one of these days we ARE going to disagree on something major. And it's going to be a big deal. And we won't have a clue what to do or what to expect from each other.
Maybe I'm borrowing trouble; maybe that's just how we interact. Every relationship is different. But I feel a little bit like I'm swimming in shark territory with a sign on my butt that says "FREE FOOD." Something's bound to happen eventually.
Not that Mike is remotely shark-like. That's not what I meant.
... okay, now I'm just rambling. It's time for this post to be over.
Which is great. I get really upset when people are angry with me, and loud voices hurt my feelings.
... no, it's great. Seriously.
It just makes me a little paranoid, like when the token blonde in a horror movie has a narrow escape - you know she's going to die an awful death eventually, and now you have to WAIT for it and it's all creepy.
Bad analogy. I'll try to explain myself a little more clearly.
I think what I'm trying to say is that it worries me a little bit that we haven't fought, because one of these days we ARE going to disagree on something major. And it's going to be a big deal. And we won't have a clue what to do or what to expect from each other.
Maybe I'm borrowing trouble; maybe that's just how we interact. Every relationship is different. But I feel a little bit like I'm swimming in shark territory with a sign on my butt that says "FREE FOOD." Something's bound to happen eventually.
Not that Mike is remotely shark-like. That's not what I meant.
... okay, now I'm just rambling. It's time for this post to be over.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
marriage advice from my mother
As marriage grows ever nearer, I have received more and more advice - both solicited and unsolicited - on how to have a successful marriage; some of it has been very good, and some of it has been... very interesting, but the best advice I've had was given to me by my mother. I don't remember exactly how she phrased it, but I'll do my best to capture the essence of what she told me.
When you reach the point where you know you're right, and that you can't possibly move forward unless your spouse changes their behaviour, you are the one who is going to have to change.
Not because the husband, as the head of the household, is always right - I'm sure Mike's going to make some dumb mistakes along the way, as will I (though I expect the majority of them will be mine... not because I am a woman, but because I am ME, and dumb mistakes happen to me a lot) - but because marriage is about sacrifice. Just as you must die to yourself daily to be molded to Christ's likeness, both husband and wife must die to themselves and love each other sacrificially to become one flesh before God.
Easy concept? No. That's why the traditional Anglican marriage service says marriage is to be entered into "soberly, and in the fear of God."
... anyway. That's my mini-sermon for the day.
When you reach the point where you know you're right, and that you can't possibly move forward unless your spouse changes their behaviour, you are the one who is going to have to change.
Not because the husband, as the head of the household, is always right - I'm sure Mike's going to make some dumb mistakes along the way, as will I (though I expect the majority of them will be mine... not because I am a woman, but because I am ME, and dumb mistakes happen to me a lot) - but because marriage is about sacrifice. Just as you must die to yourself daily to be molded to Christ's likeness, both husband and wife must die to themselves and love each other sacrificially to become one flesh before God.
Easy concept? No. That's why the traditional Anglican marriage service says marriage is to be entered into "soberly, and in the fear of God."
... anyway. That's my mini-sermon for the day.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Update: January
Gracious! I promised to be more punctual with my posts, but I failed to take the holiday season into account. Anyway, it's mid-January now, so I guess I'll give you a little peek into my world.
Firstly, I have my own office. This is the most exciting part about my job - I've never had my own office before. So I've been working to make it cute (which hasn't been easy, let me tell you), tidying things up, organizing, and that sort of thing. I spend most of my time doing light paperwork and working with assorted databases and Microsoft Publisher.
Also, I joined a gym. I am DETERMINED to get back in shape. I don't care what size wedding dress I wear; I just need to get back what college took from me. Plus, I have asthma and a family history of heart problems... getting in shape is just a generally sound idea.
I've started planning my wedding - fortunately, Mike is basically the most amazing man ever and has no aversion to helping me plan. Part of this, I'm sure, is that we're keeping the wedding as simple as possible. I don't like fuss and fluff in a wedding.
Anyway. My lunch break is over. So I'll post more later.
Firstly, I have my own office. This is the most exciting part about my job - I've never had my own office before. So I've been working to make it cute (which hasn't been easy, let me tell you), tidying things up, organizing, and that sort of thing. I spend most of my time doing light paperwork and working with assorted databases and Microsoft Publisher.
Also, I joined a gym. I am DETERMINED to get back in shape. I don't care what size wedding dress I wear; I just need to get back what college took from me. Plus, I have asthma and a family history of heart problems... getting in shape is just a generally sound idea.
I've started planning my wedding - fortunately, Mike is basically the most amazing man ever and has no aversion to helping me plan. Part of this, I'm sure, is that we're keeping the wedding as simple as possible. I don't like fuss and fluff in a wedding.
Anyway. My lunch break is over. So I'll post more later.
Monday, December 20, 2010
I done caught me a man!
... or, more accurately, he seems to have caught me. Mike and I are now engaged.
*happy dance*
He proposed on Friday, and we're getting married in August. I could not have dreamed up a more amazing man to marry. Yay!
In other news, I graduated from college (FINALLY!), and am now a secretary. Yes, folks, that's how I'm putting my music degree to work. But that's okay. I like it here, and I need a job. Everybody is really nice to me here, and I get my own office with my own desk, which is super-exciting.
I think that's all for now, but now that I can have a life again (because I DON'T HAVE TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL!) you can be sure I'll keep you a little more updated. Danae out.
*happy dance*
He proposed on Friday, and we're getting married in August. I could not have dreamed up a more amazing man to marry. Yay!
In other news, I graduated from college (FINALLY!), and am now a secretary. Yes, folks, that's how I'm putting my music degree to work. But that's okay. I like it here, and I need a job. Everybody is really nice to me here, and I get my own office with my own desk, which is super-exciting.
I think that's all for now, but now that I can have a life again (because I DON'T HAVE TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL!) you can be sure I'll keep you a little more updated. Danae out.
Friday, November 19, 2010
in the meantime
... my internet connection was being stupid, and then my computer died. Which is why I haven't posted in almost a month. Yipes! My computer is still being repaired, but maybe I'll have it back eventually.
Probably.
In other news, it's been 3.5 weeks since I've seen Mike. I am going INSANE.
Probably.
In other news, it's been 3.5 weeks since I've seen Mike. I am going INSANE.
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